LADIES, Taking accountability matters. As a woman we get to choose who we want to have a baby with. Men get to choose who they want to marry. On that note I do believe that if a man has no emotional attachment to the woman, he creates a child with it may be hard for him to love or even accept the child. I'm not saying that's an excuse for him to walk away but it's the reality of it. If a man is not emotionally attached to that woman he will give no second thought about sticking around, working things out with you. or even being in that child's life. His choice then will soley come from either doing what is right for the child's sake or the sake of doing what he has to do because he is a man, Why is it so easy for him to walk away from his own baby? Im glad you asked. As a woman, we grow attachment to our children before they are even born. Well duh, its no surprise, I mean the baby grows inside of a woman's womb for 9 months which allows us to bond on a level that a man could never understand. Women do things with emotion whereas a man could not have any reason at all but for simple masculine pleasure as to why he chooses to do what he does. Im no expert in this department. The goal is simply to get the ladies to think about who we decide to create with. Think about if he genuinely cares or loves you, is he emotionally stable, I think you can get my point as to where I'm going. I didn't mention to think about if he is financially stable because if he is not emotionally/mentally stable the money wouldn't even matter at that point. Unless that's your main concern. Honestly, it's the secondhand embarrassment for me. I can't tell you how many times I see women on social media bashing their baby dad for not being a father to their child. My question is what was the relationship like before the baby? If he wasn't solid with you before the baby, why expect him to be solid after the baby. It's a gamble when the relationship was never stable from the beginning. Take it or leave it.
